Risk Factors
If a friend says, “I want to kill myself,” or “I'm going to commit suicide,” always take the statement seriously. Immediately seek assistance from the school counselor or talk your parents for assistance. Or, help your friend to find someone trained to help, such as a doctor, community health center, counselor, psychologist, social worker, youth worker, or minister. Numbers for suicide hotlines and crisis centers should be available in your local phone book or call 1-800-SUICIDE. If your friend is in immediate danger, it is important to get help right away. Do not leave your friend alone. Seek help immediately by calling for emergency help, if necessary.
The parents of the teen should be notified who may choose to work with a qualified mental health professional for the best advice. People often feel uncomfortable talking about death. However, asking the friend whether he or she is depressed or thinking about suicide can be helpful. Let the person know that you care and give them a chance to talk about their problems.
Even if it will anger your friend, talk with an adult you trust about your friend's situation so that you aren't carrying the burden by yourself. Do not try to "rescue" your friend or be a hero and try to handle the situation on your own. You can be the most help by referring your friend to someone with the professional skills to provide the help that he or she needs, while you continue to offer support.